Category Archives: Sober Article

I’m Going to Rehab

The front entrance of Lakeview Health Jacksonville, Florida   No, I have not relapsed.  I am going to rehab sober, as a guest of Jacksonville’s Lakeview Health for their Professional Weekend which started last night with a dinner, introductions and a few inspirational videos. The 25 attendees are from all over the country and they […]

What is a Wet House?

  One of the positives about being open to learning new things, is that I stay current and well informed, particularly about the subjects of sobriety and recovery. One of the negatives (at least for me) is that in researching these subjects, I learn things about myself I’d rather not know – and the constant search for […]

The Psychopath Test

  I have had more than one man tell me “I do not know the meaning of love”. I resent that, but it’s like B.O. or stupidity – if you are told you offend for a particular reason, by more than one person, it is worth looking into (I suppose). And even though I dislike […]

Am I Recovering or Recovered?

“The Absinthe Drinker” by Viktor Oliva. Is that a stupid question? I have a feeling I might be one of those people who do not want to be called a “recovering alcoholic”.  Normally, I don’t care what you call me (just don’t call me late for the barbeque), but I am vaguely offended by the […]

Maybe it Will Rain…

So my new job has taken an interesting turn. I am now helping to complete construction on a beach house that is already rented for the weekend after next… punch lists and deliveries and schedules and the last minute tweaking of home goods…  I am actually qualified to do this. Not the real work, like grouting […]

Hedonism

  There was a time when the only thing I thought about when I woke was, “What island will we party on today?” I’d reach for a leftover glass of wine on the nightstand, a tangle of sheets and a foggy memory of the night before (which usually involved a party on a private island…) […]