Lady Macbeth: … Yet do I fear thy nature, It is too full o’ th’ milk of human kindness To catch the nearest way. Kindness and Recovery Can we ever be too kind? Is a simple act of kindness ever a detriment to success? Does kindness ever open the door to exploitation? I was listening […]
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Name Day by Oleg Korchagin …sounds like a non sequitur doesn’t it? I hope I’m not one of those people who always talk about the good (and bad) old days. I am not looking back per se, and I am living a very exciting life at the moment, but I did do some really […]
And endless sea… And a dog who understands the joy of homecoming… But doesn’t know how to pace herself… And more endless sea… I’m going home. If you love the blog (or even if you don’t), subscribe in the box above and it will come in your email. Like me on Facebook Follow me […]
This horse is NOT dead… Or: Is Alcoholism a Choice, Revisited I am one of those people who will beat a subject (or a joke) into the ground. My son Jon Jon is the person who calls me on it regularly. During the Christmas holiday, he told me that every time I give his dog a […]
…misery acquaits a man with strange bed bedfellows… Fiona and Vincent – choosing to be friends. Does it make you feel better to know your misguided behavior and misery while drinking, is caused by a disorder or a syndrome or a disease or a D2 receptor that limits your pleasure like a nun at Catholic boarding […]
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When I think of the Caribbean… This weekend I wrote a joint post with the Sober Senorita on living and drinking in the Caribbean. There is a point in our blog conversation, where Kelly waxes poetic about why she would never go back to drinking. It is heartfelt and quite beautiful, and it was a bit embarrassing to […]
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What Happened? Have you ever woken to that horrible feeling of WHAT HAPPENED? You open your eyes, look at your car keys as if they are some foreign object (they are usually on the floor beside your pants, a party hat and a wad of credit card receipts) and wonder, “Oh, God… Did I drive?” Your mind […]
No man is an island, entire of itself… The Galloit Bank in the Exumas, The Bahamas I’m excited about today’s joint post with the Sober Señorita. Kelly Fitzgerald writes a great blog, and we’ve got a lot in common: we are sober; we both lived and drank in the Caribbean; we have both moved away from Paradise; […]
Here’s a sentence you’ll probably never hear anyone utter: I need to talk to someone about the fact I am addicted to apples; I hide them in my ankle boots and eat them when I’m all alone… Why is it we are only addicted to processed foods and drinks? And why do […]
I made that up. I have been accused of being a perfectionist by those who do not know me very well; the people who have not opened a drawer, or gotten close enough to notice the mustard stain on my lapel. I am actually a startling combination of flawlessness and havoc: the qualities that intrigue men […]